As we approach the next few months, we are surrounded by many religious, non-religious, and cultural celebrations. The season is also a wonderful reminder of the connections and opportunities we have to create memories with family and friends that last far beyond today.
The nostalgia of the season can be meaningful, and honestly, many "golden" traditions and practices are simply for fun. As for me, I have spent years attempting to master the art of having a beautiful Christmas tree, but the fact remains that my sister’s and mom’s decor makes mine look a little whimpy. Still, it isn’t the tree that really makes the season bright. While I am not quite willing to stop working on making my tree shine, I do recognize that there are many opportunities to connect with people, build relationships, and be part of a community that will create lasting memories.
Sometimes, the stress of planning every detail can get in the way, so I hope you will take some time to avoid the busyness, let go of perfectionism, and simply enjoy the holidays and be present in the moment. Look around, find ways to engage, and reach out to others who may be trying to find some joy in the season. No one experiences the holidays in the same way, and they do not need to be a Hallmark moment to be worth celebrating!
Whether it is reading a book to a child, playing a board game, sledding down a hill with friends, having a great conversation, volunteering together, attending a school activity or concert, or taking time to enjoy a meal together, these activities add to the richness of the celebrations and experiences. Taking time to journal or make a list of things you are grateful for is also a great way to shift your mindset when things do not seem to go quite as planned.
While we are all unique in how we celebrate, let’s come together to build relationships, show kindness, and be generous in thought and deed this season. Kindness is a beautiful gift to give.
Well wishes to you this season!
